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Monday, August 05, 2013

Are YOU a Champion? 


The dictionary definition of a champion is a person who has defeated or surpassed all rivals in a competition. My personal favorite definition, is to "live your life in your own way, to reach for the goals you have set for yourself, and to be the YOU that you want to be."

What makes a champion? I bet you know a champion. Are they your neighbor, your co-worker, your family member? Is it Mary Lou Retton, Kelly Clarkson, a pastor, a doctor, a nurse?

I want you to imagine yourself right now as a champion...go ahead, close your eyes, and imagine what it would look like to be a champion. No, I do not want to hear you say, "I am not good at anything. " Now go ahead, close your eyes. I want you to imagine what it looks like to be a champion.  This may take a little time. I want you to find a quiet place. There must be no distractions. Make a list in your head of all your talents.

I can see that it is not hard for you to list the talents if you are a top speed skater, a pro basketball player, a famous artist. Are you the fastest runner on your team?  Have you won All-conference honors on your basketball team? Did you qualify for the National Golf team? Are you an award-winning novelist? Do people naturally gravitate toward you because you are a natural leader?

Ok, that is a great start. Next, I want you to list those talents you have that are a little deeper inside. You know they exist! These are the talents that you have kept hiding and are not being fully utilized. Keep this list because we will refer back to it.

Now, picture you are looking for someone to join your team. You are looking for a champion. It can be your softball team, your rowing team, your debate team, etc. When you pick your teammate, are you looking at their "gifts" that are obvious? For example, are you looking at the person's gifts and projecting those into the future? They have talent now so they will be my champion in the future. Or are you thinking that person has a lot of potential and with hard work, passion, discipline, commitment and good instruction, that person can be an amazing teammate?

Its okay, there is not a right answer. I just want you to be aware that many people who have amazing talents, never reach their full potential, so you may have passed up the true champion who was ready, willing, and able to be your student. It might have been you...with all your "hidden" talents that were not being utilized.

I ask you again, "Are you a Champion?" More importantly, "Can you pick the champion?" I will tell you this one thing to be more true now then ever before...the kind of feedback students get from the people who evaluate them (their parents, their teachers, their coaches) makes the difference between finding a champion or finding someone who is not. Specifically, champions are found when evaluating the process (e.g., effort, learning) as opposed to a focus on the person (e.g., talent or ability).